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  • Sam Conder
    Woodworker Once More
    • Dec 2002
    • 2502
    • Midway, KY
    • Delta 36-725T2

    Let's stay civil

    As you know, controversy has found us. We didn't go looking for it, but it found us none the less. I predict that we are in for a significant period of time where we will be joined by immature visitors who delight themselves in creating so much animosity on Internet forums that the forums nearly burn down from the flames.

    So, it is with the utmost urgency that I beg of each and every one of us, let's just let it go. I have been guilty of replying to posts on this forum when I should have let it die. (Incidentally, Adele gets a BIG "I told you so” on that one!) I am now COMPLETELY FINISHED with public discussion of the situation, which includes the chat room. I am still dealing with the situation privately via e-mail with some involved parties and it is my goal to have it wrapped up soon.

    Additionally, the worst thing we can do is to start a turf war. Don't get me wrong, we all have the right to say what we want where we want, but sometimes it is wise to evaluate whether saying it is worth the trouble it will bring you. I'm sure many of you have ventured over to woodworking.com's forum and viewed the thread as it has evolved. When reading it, before getting angry and "saying what needs to be said", take a look at how unkind that the posters over there are acting. Do we want to look like that?

    Finally, for me to delete Tim's posts, lock the thread, or delete his account without him requesting me to would be wrong. The only time I delete posts is if they are blatantly vulgar or offensive, or if they are in any way illegal. Also, the only time I will ever delete a user's account is if it is per their request.

    Now, let's move on, shall we?



    Sam Conder
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  • Don Houston
    Forum Newbie
    • Apr 2003
    • 82
    • Katy, Texas, USA.

    #2
    I'm behind you 100% Sam.

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    • Rslaugh
      Senior Member
      • Sep 2003
      • 609
      • Red Lion, PA, USA.
      • Ridgid

      #3
      Well said Boss dude. I gotta admit it took all my strength to just LOOK at certain posts on other forums.

      Rick Slaugh
      Rick
      IG: @rslaugh_photography
      A sailor travels to many lands, Any place he pleases
      And he always remembers to wash his hands, So's he don't gets no diseases
      ~PeeWee Herman~

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      • pnctar
        Senior Member
        • Jan 2003
        • 537
        • Arlington, TX, USA.
        • Ryobi BT3000

        #4
        Said it once ... will say it again. This forum is better than that and we should just let it die a quiet death. No posts, no bumps and not worth the time to answer.

        Steve
        Shadow box?! and you want it when?
        Steve
        There are no mistakes in woodworking, only opportunities to reevaluate the design! - Jim Tolpin

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        • Lefty
          Senior Member
          • Sep 2003
          • 874
          • Sioux Falls, SD, USA.

          #5
          This community is like Mayberry. Every now and then some riff-raff rolls through town, but it doesn't change the town.
          Thanks for the great community, Sam.
          Best get down to the fishin' hole.
          Eric

          -BT3K user since 1999 and I still have the tip of my SMT fence…And most of my fingers!
          Eric

          -Supplier of quality sawdust to southeast South Dakota!

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          • leehljp
            Just me
            • Dec 2002
            • 8449
            • Tunica, MS
            • BT3000/3100

            #6
            Agreed.

            Hank
            Hank Lee

            Experience is what you get when you don't get what you wanted!

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            • VegasDice
              Established Member
              • Jun 2003
              • 472
              • Las Vegas, NV, USA.

              #7
              Well put Eric. I'm sure I'm not the only one who wanted to pursue the instigator with anger. But alas, just quack quack like a duck, and let it roll off our collective backs.

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              • RodKirby
                Veteran Member
                • Dec 2002
                • 3136
                • Melbourne, Victoria, Australia.
                • Mao Shan TSC-10RAS

                #8
                I'm with you, Sam +

                Thanks

                A Professional is someone who does what they say they will do.
                Downunder ... 1" = 25.4mm

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                • DUD
                  Royal Jester
                  • Dec 2002
                  • 3309
                  • Jonesboro, Arkansas, USA.
                  • Ryobi BT3000

                  #9
                  I will not violate the trust you have in us Sam. I left another forum because of jerks, I like it here, from now own I'll just ignore stupidity when it crops up.

                  If You can't be good for nothing, do it for free!
                  5 OUT OF 4 PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND FRACTIONS.

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                  • Adele
                    Established Member
                    • Nov 2003
                    • 391
                    • Midway, KY, USA.

                    #10
                    I told you so.



                    Mrs. Boss
                    Adele

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                    • Jim Boyd
                      Veteran Member
                      • Dec 2002
                      • 1766
                      • Montgomery, Texas, USA.
                      • Delta Unisaw

                      #11
                      I missed something!

                      Jim in Texas and Sicko Ryobi Cult Member ©
                      Jim in Texas and Sicko Ryobi Cult Member ©

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                      • tfischer
                        Veteran Member
                        • Jul 2003
                        • 2343
                        • Plymouth (Minneapolis), MN, USA.
                        • BT3100

                        #12
                        quote:Originally posted by Jim Boyd

                        I missed something!

                        Jim in Texas and Sicko Ryobi Cult Member ©
                        Me too, until I went back to see what it was all about.

                        And being pretty new here, and posessing the name "Tim" made me a bit paranoid... [:0]

                        -Tim (not that Tim!)

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                        • JLyon
                          Established Member
                          • Jun 2003
                          • 138
                          • Kirkland, WA, USA.

                          #13
                          I'm with you guys. DUD used the phrase "polite society" a while back. I was thinking then, how much I missed that concept in our society which seems to be increasingly populated with impolite, arrogant, self-centered, immature people who in the past might have been mostly ignored, but now have the internet to use as their pulpit. It won't be easy, but I agree with Sam that we need to let this stuff roll off. We need to either ignore it (the ranting child who doesn't get a response will ultimately stop ranting), or we need to provide some helpful guidance (which is what this group is all about), and try to bring some of these misguided souls around to behaving like civilized adults. My hat is off to those of you who are already doing this.
                          Jeff

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                          • leehljp
                            Just me
                            • Dec 2002
                            • 8449
                            • Tunica, MS
                            • BT3000/3100

                            #14
                            quote:Originally posted by Adele

                            I told you so.



                            Mrs. Boss
                            Adele
                            Hey Adele, glad you have been joining us lately. If my wife knew we "needed" watchin after, she would make me get off! Join in and make us tow the line when needed. Since you have your own computer now, we look forward to seeing you on here more often!

                            Hank
                            Hank Lee

                            Experience is what you get when you don't get what you wanted!

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                            • Jeff
                              Senior Member
                              • Jan 2003
                              • 653
                              • Beaumont, CA, USA.
                              • BT6000

                              #15
                              quote:Originally posted by Adele

                              I told you so.



                              Mrs. Boss
                              Adele
                              YOU GO GIRL!!!
                              Oops, what am I saying? [8D]

                              Sam-- great to have checks and balances, no?

                              Jeff in Beaumont - "Official T-Nut Supplier to the European Union"
                              http://t-nuts.com/bt3c
                              Chromosomes: Monkeys, 44. Humans, 46. Sweet potato, 48. Przewalski's Horse, 66. Forest fern, 144.
                              Evolution? Yeah right.
                              Jeff in Beaumont, the OLD T-Nuts guy

                              Chromosomes: Monkeys, 44. Humans, 46. Sweet potato, 48. Przewalski's Horse, 66. Forest fern, 144.
                              Evolution? Yeah right.

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