I don't know most of you.
I know this is likely an unorthodox note For a woodworking forum. I'm really at the end of my rope.
Durango Diva and I are headed to a counselor today for an "exit" assessment of our marriage.
We will decide where we're headed (divorce or more counseling) , given his input.
I have a stack of woodworking projects that I made for her the last two years, most of which she's set aside and/or refused.
The Morris Chair is still in the garage, since the color doesn't match the living room.
It's not really about the chair or its color ---- it's about us.
I'm 50 years old, and never expected to be standing where I'm at. It's absolutely no fun.
If you're older and/or wiser than me --- would love sincere counsel in a private message.
If you're younger than me - I'd say dude ---- be intentional about your wife and family.
You don't want to walk in my shoes.
There's so much I could have/should have done ------- and now, facing the possibility that the only thing I'll have is regrets.
To add insult to injury, I'm about to sell my shop, since I'll eventually need to move to an apartment. I can't afford anything
with a garage in Durango, and can't really afford to have the equipment moved - even if I find a job elsewhere.
My prized projects - daughter's hope chest - the Morris chair - a bookshelf I made for the office ----- will eventually be
sold in a yard sale for $25 or so, each. The excuse will be "we don't have room for it." The reason - it hurts to be reminded of me.
That's where your work and pride ends up when you don't take care of your family.
I don't smoke, drink, curse. I'm not violent, although I'm certainly intense.
I AM negligent --- and this is what happens when you neglect family.
In any event - if you're a spiritually minded person - pray for me and my family at 8:00 AM mountain time.
Dear mods - I'll remove this in a week or so, unless you feel it needs to be removed before then.
I know this is likely an unorthodox note For a woodworking forum. I'm really at the end of my rope.
Durango Diva and I are headed to a counselor today for an "exit" assessment of our marriage.
We will decide where we're headed (divorce or more counseling) , given his input.
I have a stack of woodworking projects that I made for her the last two years, most of which she's set aside and/or refused.
The Morris Chair is still in the garage, since the color doesn't match the living room.
It's not really about the chair or its color ---- it's about us.
I'm 50 years old, and never expected to be standing where I'm at. It's absolutely no fun.
If you're older and/or wiser than me --- would love sincere counsel in a private message.
If you're younger than me - I'd say dude ---- be intentional about your wife and family.
You don't want to walk in my shoes.
There's so much I could have/should have done ------- and now, facing the possibility that the only thing I'll have is regrets.
To add insult to injury, I'm about to sell my shop, since I'll eventually need to move to an apartment. I can't afford anything
with a garage in Durango, and can't really afford to have the equipment moved - even if I find a job elsewhere.
My prized projects - daughter's hope chest - the Morris chair - a bookshelf I made for the office ----- will eventually be
sold in a yard sale for $25 or so, each. The excuse will be "we don't have room for it." The reason - it hurts to be reminded of me.
That's where your work and pride ends up when you don't take care of your family.
I don't smoke, drink, curse. I'm not violent, although I'm certainly intense.
I AM negligent --- and this is what happens when you neglect family.
In any event - if you're a spiritually minded person - pray for me and my family at 8:00 AM mountain time.
Dear mods - I'll remove this in a week or so, unless you feel it needs to be removed before then.
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