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  • billwmeyer
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2003
    • 1868
    • Weir, Ks, USA.
    • BT3000

    #1

    My flag is at half mast

    I lost my father Wednesday. He died from bladder cancer, he was 89, and would have been 90 on August 23rd. He lived on his own until late February when he entered the hospital and then a nursing home.

    He was a four year veteren of WWII. He tried to enlist, but they turned him down because he was blind in one eye. He was later drafted. He served at Ft Levenworth guarding war prisoners. He really hated that assignment. He was later tranferred to Ft Hood, Washington, where he attended cooks school. He applied for overseas duty 3 times. He was turned down twice, because of his blind eye, and finally accepted. They were gathered and prepped to board a ship, when the whole group was suddenly ordered back to base.

    He farmed his entire life up until the age of 80 or so, and he retired after 30 years working for Big Smith Manufacturing (the old Big Smith Work Clothes Co.) He ran their computer department, running the big room full of computer, magnetic discs, running punch card programs.

    He was my best friend, my idol, my hero and my inspiration. He loved to scrap metal and when he entered the nursing home, he noticed that the doors all had brass hinges. In his head he figured how many hinges were in the nursing home, and gave a rough estimate of what they would scrap out at. He was amazing. He is now at rest.

    Bill
    "I just dropped in to see what condition my condition was in."-Kenny Rogers
  • bigstick509
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2004
    • 1227
    • Macomb, MI, USA.
    • BT3100

    #2

    Mike

    "It's not the things you don't know that will hurt you, it's the things you think you know that ain't so." - Mark Twain

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    • tommyt654
      Veteran Member
      • Nov 2008
      • 2334

      #3
      Sorry for your loss

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      • Uncle Cracker
        The Full Monte
        • May 2007
        • 7091
        • Sunshine State
        • BT3000

        #4
        So sorry to hear of your loss. Rest assured that the fond memories will live on and help to sustain you.

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        • eccentrictinkerer
          Senior Member
          • Aug 2007
          • 669
          • Minneapolis, MN
          • BT-3000, 21829

          #5
          Our hearts go out to you and your family. I lost my dad in June of 2001, at 82, and I think of him and miss him every day.

          It sounds like you had as wonderful a relationship with your dad as I did with mine. He was the only person I ever wanted be like.

          The hurt never goes away completely, but you learn to handle it better. Dad always said, "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger".

          Best wishes to you all.

          J.D.
          You might think I haven't contributed much to the world, but a large number
          of the warning labels on tools can be traced back to things I've done...

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          • atgcpaul
            Veteran Member
            • Aug 2003
            • 4055
            • Maryland
            • Grizzly 1023SLX

            #6
            My condolences to you.

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            • Pappy
              The Full Monte
              • Dec 2002
              • 10490
              • San Marcos, TX, USA.
              • BT3000 (x2)

              #7
              My sympathies to you and yours. Even when it is expected, the loss of a loved one is hard to take. Momma passed in 04 at about the same age. I still think of her a lot and the memories are all good.
              Don, aka Pappy,

              Wise men talk because they have something to say,
              Fools because they have to say something.
              Plato

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              • cwsmith
                Veteran Member
                • Dec 2005
                • 2811
                • NY Southern Tier, USA.
                • BT3100-1

                #8
                I'm sorry for the loss of your father. I know from experience that your next few weeks will be full of rememberances and sadness too. But, I also know that his strength and love will bring you many happy memories.

                Sincerest sympathies to you and your family,

                CWS
                Think it Through Before You Do!

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                • LCHIEN
                  Super Moderator
                  • Dec 2002
                  • 22060
                  • Katy, TX, USA.
                  • BT3000 vintage 1999

                  #9
                  Bill, you have my sympathy and empathy - my father passed away at 93 on Thursday in his sleep. We've been expecting it for a while now but it's still very difficult. My father also did his share of things big and small. But most importantly he took care of and loved his family. I miss him very much.
                  Loring in Katy, TX USA
                  If your only tool is a hammer, you tend to treat all problems as if they were nails.
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                  • Black wallnut
                    cycling to health
                    • Jan 2003
                    • 5513
                    • Ellensburg, Wa, USA.
                    • BT3k 1999

                    #10
                    Seems like a fitting tribute to a great man! Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
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                    • bruce hylton
                      Established Member
                      • Dec 2008
                      • 211
                      • winlock, wa
                      • Dewalt today

                      #11
                      One pile of good memories, enjoy them. Thoughts are with you.

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                      • Uncle Cracker
                        The Full Monte
                        • May 2007
                        • 7091
                        • Sunshine State
                        • BT3000

                        #12
                        Originally posted by LCHIEN
                        Bill, you have my sympathy and empathy - my father passed away at 93 on Thursday in his sleep. We've been expecting it for a while now but it's still very difficult. My father also did his share of things big and small. But most importantly he took care of and loved his family. I miss him very much.
                        Condolences to you and your family, as well, Loring...

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                        • eezlock
                          Senior Member
                          • Feb 2006
                          • 997
                          • Charlotte,N.C.
                          • BT3100

                          #13
                          my flag at half mast

                          Sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. I lost both my parents 16 years ago
                          so I know how you are feeling. My dad was also a WW2 veteran who died at age 68 and I still miss him terribly. I learned a lot from him, and after all these years I catch myself wanting to talk to him and/or ask his advice on something
                          then reality sets in and I realize his is not there...............

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                          • herb fellows
                            Veteran Member
                            • Apr 2007
                            • 1867
                            • New York City
                            • bt3100

                            #14
                            Sorry for your loss as well as Lorings; as others have said expecting it does not make it any easier.
                            My dad and yours had a few things in common. My dad passed at 89, was also blind in one eye and was drafted. He spent most of the war in Australia painting numbers on battle ships (he was a sign painter by trade).
                            You don't need a parachute to skydive, you only need a parachute to skydive twice.

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                            • cabinetman
                              Gone but not Forgotten RIP
                              • Jun 2006
                              • 15216
                              • So. Florida
                              • Delta

                              #15
                              I'm very sorry to hear of yours and Loring's loss. I lost both parents at a young age. That kind of grief is hard to accept and I wish you both strength.
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