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  • cabinetman
    Gone but not Forgotten RIP
    • Jun 2006
    • 15216
    • So. Florida
    • Delta

    #1

    Off To Jail

    This is an update and likely not the last. My next door neighbor (22 yrs old) has been arrested...I can't keep track...3-4 times. His father refuses to bail him out this time.

    His interaction with me got very close to be a slug out in the street. A little background. He was a smiling 12 yr old on a bicycle circling our driveway when we moved in 10 years ago. Seemingly a good kid. I was like a big brother to him.

    I don't know when the actual snap occurred but, we've found dead fish on the ground outside our bedroom window. Dead rats that were trap caught, just thrown into our yard. After Wilma, loaned our smoker grill and a full large bag of charcoal so they could cook. I had to ask for the grill back. It was destroyed by heat. Never an offer to replace the charcoal.

    Our little event in the street was due to him wanting another favor of towing his car. His smart mouth and "Army" comments brought us face to face. Fortunately for him, he didn't want to take his best shot.

    His arrests have been mostly for stealing from people he knows. He broke into a friend of his father, and stole tools...was caught. Broke in again about a year later, and was caught...on camera. His best and only job was with the contractor that did the construction in our area for the sewer. A real tough job. All he had to do was stand in the road and divert traffic with a flag, for $12 an hour.

    So, what did he do? He got caught breaking into and stealing tools from his companies' trailer. So, this time he'll likely do some serious time. Too bad. Not a good way to start out life. He's probably where he belongs.
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  • LinuxRandal
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2005
    • 4890
    • Independence, MO, USA.
    • bt3100

    #2
    I hope he isn't like some I have known. They just get an education in the joint.
    She couldn't tell the difference between the escape pod, and the bathroom. We had to go back for her.........................Twice.

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    • dbhost
      Slow and steady
      • Apr 2008
      • 9553
      • League City, Texas
      • Ryobi BT3100

      #3
      Some guys insist on going bad. A pity.

      To be blunt, this isn't necessarily doom and gloom for this kid, assuming that he learns from being locked up and mends his ways...

      Of course that is being very optimistic...
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      • Uncle Cracker
        The Full Monte
        • May 2007
        • 7091
        • Sunshine State
        • BT3000

        #4
        Prison does not rehabilitate. Even those guys who try to do "good time" are ridiculed (or much worse) while inside, and most give in to the peer pressure and join the "clubs" just to protect themselves. Only when a person makes up his mind on the outside to stay out of trouble will he have any hope of success. Unfortunately, many do not choose the right way out.

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        • Kristofor
          Veteran Member
          • Jul 2004
          • 1331
          • Twin Cities, MN
          • Jet JTAS10 Cabinet Saw

          #5
          Sadly we gain almost nothing in the long run by putting him away... Prison doesn't seem to "fix" most folks with this type of behavior pattern...

          Has he been sentenced yet? I don't know if they do this anymore, but maybe you want to talk to the dad and/or judge and see if he/she would consider the old 5 years in prison or 4 on the army deal?

          While foisting "troublemakers" on the services probably isn't ideal, I have to think there's a MUCH greater chance of salvaging the guy (for himself and society) there than in prison, and if he doesn't want to make the grade he could always be dumpped back in Jail. Besides I would think he'd have his opinions about the service changed in a hurry at any rate.

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          • Hoover
            Veteran Member
            • Mar 2003
            • 1273
            • USA.

            #6
            It sounds as though the young man chose his path a long time ago. Whatever happens to him will be his own decision to make. Spending time in the prison he will probably learn how to be a better criminal. What a waste.
            No good deed goes unpunished

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            • TB Roye
              Veteran Member
              • Jan 2004
              • 2969
              • Sacramento, CA, USA.
              • BT3100

              #7
              I don't think they do the time in the Service bit vs Prison anymore. I know a bunch my peers who were given that choice for their behavior and it helped them. That the one thing the Draft did do it help a lot of young men to mature. I know it got a lot of them killed but that is a whole different topic. Serving your Country for two years during peace time helped a lot of young men grow up, I think it would still help some people.


              On our way to visit the grandkids in Idaho we go by the prision just east of Lovlock NV, where OJ now resides, to bad he isn't 300 mile to the west and a cell mate of Scott Peterson. Our DIL has a brother who cannot stay out of prision it is like a revolving door, her family thinks he is better off in Prision than on the street.

              Tom

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