We put our family van up for sale on CL last night. Got 3 inquiries by morning, two of which resulted in early morning phone calls, and both of those showed an interest in coming to see it.
One of the interested parties was going to come from ~ 70 miles out of town tonight, and said "if it's as described, he'd be interested and could cut a check". My understanding was that he would call later this afternoon to confirm before he left. The other interested party called back around noon today and wanted to stop and see it...he looked, made a good offer, left a deposit, and the van is now considered sold pending final payment. I called the other party back to tell him it's sold...he was very upset with me for selling it...said he was counting on it, that I showed "bad form", and that I should have honored our agreement.
I'm feeling pretty bad about it right now, but the words "I'll take it", "deal" or "sold" were never uttered. I try hard to be a man of my word and honor handshake or verbal agreements and I expect other's to do the same. In a case like this, it's typically first come first served. Had the out of town party been on route, I would have given him first shot before accepting the other offer, but his trip was still tentative as far az I understood though I did understand he's was sincerely "interested". I'd like your opinions....did I show bad form here? How would you have handled it?
One of the interested parties was going to come from ~ 70 miles out of town tonight, and said "if it's as described, he'd be interested and could cut a check". My understanding was that he would call later this afternoon to confirm before he left. The other interested party called back around noon today and wanted to stop and see it...he looked, made a good offer, left a deposit, and the van is now considered sold pending final payment. I called the other party back to tell him it's sold...he was very upset with me for selling it...said he was counting on it, that I showed "bad form", and that I should have honored our agreement.
I'm feeling pretty bad about it right now, but the words "I'll take it", "deal" or "sold" were never uttered. I try hard to be a man of my word and honor handshake or verbal agreements and I expect other's to do the same. In a case like this, it's typically first come first served. Had the out of town party been on route, I would have given him first shot before accepting the other offer, but his trip was still tentative as far az I understood though I did understand he's was sincerely "interested". I'd like your opinions....did I show bad form here? How would you have handled it?
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