Winter of Our lives

[DUD]

This is so true. Bill




And it's winter before we know it....




You know, time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the passing years.

It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married and embarking on my new life with my mate. And yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all the years went. I know that I lived them all...


And I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams... But, here it is..the winter of my life and it catches me by surprise... How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my babies go? And where did my youth go?

I remember well.. seeing older people through the years and thinking that those older people were years away from me and that winter was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like... But, here it is...my friends are retired and really getting gray...they move slower and I see an older person now. Lots are in better shape than me... but, I see the great change... Not like the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant... but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd be.

Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore...it's mandatory! Cause if I don't on my own free will...I just fall asleep where I sit!

And so, now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that I wish I had done but never did!!

But, at least I know, that though the winter has come, and I'm not sure how long it will last...this I know, that when it's over...its over....Yes , I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't done ,,,,,things I should have done, but indeed, there are many things I'm happy to have done. It's all in a lifetime....

So, if you're not in your winter yet...let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life please do it quickly! Don't put things off too long!!

Life goes by quickly. So, do what you can today, as you can never be sure whether this is your winter or not!

You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life...so, live for good today and say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember...and hope that they appreciate and love you for all the things that you have done for them in all the years past!!

"Life is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who come after.

Make it a fantastic one."

LIVE IT WELL!!----ENJOY TODAY!!!!-----DO SOMETHING FUN!!!----BE HAPPY!!!----BE THANKFUL!!!!!

[RodKirby]

All of it true

I go to a shopping mall during the week and think - "all these grey headed people, moving slowly" - oops, I fit right in

[Ed62]

Only us old folks can really appreciate that. First it's spring, then all of a sudden it's winter.

Ed

[mater]

That was good Bill. I enjoyed reading it.

[Uncle Cracker]

Only us old folks can really appreciate that. First it's spring, then all of a sudden it's winter.

True that. I don't remember the "fall". But from the way I feel when I get up in the morning, it must've been a doozy!

[ironhat]

Good one, DUD.

[SHADOWFOX]

Bill,

I'm one of the young ones but I greatly appreciated that one. Thank you for sharing!

[TB Roye]

Don't know if it is the winter of my life, but it sure is the fall. Like Rod I go some place and see all the grey haired old people and then realize I am one of them. When I am driving someplace and get behind an old codger going slow it doesn't bother me any more, just young people with cell phone glued to their ears blowing stop signs and redlights.

Tom

[skipwill]

We went to a Kingston Trio concert a couple of years ago....Realized, looking around the audience, that everyone there had grey hair! How did this happen?

[Uncle Cracker]

We went to a Kingston Trio concert a couple of years ago....Realized, looking around the audience, that everyone there had grey hair! How did this happen?

Same way it did at the last Grateful Dead concert I attended...

[jhart]

Semi retired recently and many of those same thoughts have been going through my mind. Where did all of the time go? Seems to go faster each year and seem to get less accomplished.
Every year as winter approaches, real or otherwise, I seem to dread it more

[rcp612]

Very thought provoking. LOML keeps reminding me to quit calling that guy at the Borg "the old guy". Seems that he's actually younger than me.

[chopnhack]

Uggh, I'm constantly reminded that by LOML that I am no longer in my 20's...so depressing, you have brought to the forefront that even from this age I will not be able to accomplish all that I want to.THANKS
Just kidding, thats the way life is and you must take advantage everyday, great reminder.