Well, OK, we are NOT moving....

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  • MilDoc
    #1

    Well, OK, we are NOT moving....

    LOML came home from work Friday and announced she would NOT move with me. Discussed it ad infinitum all weekend. Then Monday before she left for work she presented me with all the (+) and (-) she could think of for moving or staying put.

    Shoot.

    She was right . Besides, her ultimatum was that I could move to Bastrop if I wanted to, but she was staying here .

    So today I called the Army etc and they welcomed me back with open arms. Start working in the Army clinic again next week.

    Nothing is worth more to me than LOML!!!!!!!

    Just "pains" me "as a MAN" that --- she was right!

    But then, that's why we love the women we love. 'cause they are more thoughtful and introspective than we are!
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    • Cheeky
      Senior Member
      • Nov 2006
      • 862
      • westchester cty, new york
      • Ridgid TS2400LS
      #2
      Congrats, and hopefully they came to their senses and will pay you more!
      Pete

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        • leehljp
          The Full Monte
          • Dec 2002
          • 8788
          • Tunica, MS
          • BT3000/3100
          #3
          YOU are staying for the RIGHT reason! True Wisdom!


          On another note:
          I don't mean to start anything but one of the coworkers that I supervise - he lists the + and - of everything and presents things in an already determined course. He does this so often that it sends up a red flag when I see a plus and minus list. That would be OK if his lists were driven by priorities, which they usually aren't, only things beneficial to him.

          I stop LOML when I see her doing a + / - list. I just ask her what she really want to do and tell her to just do it. I am behind her! She doesn't do them that often but when she can't make up her mind . . . I know she has but she doesn't want to admit it out loud!

          Plus and minus lists have a way of being very subjective!
          Hank Lee

          Experience is what you get when you don't get what you wanted!

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            • LCHIEN
              Super Moderator
              • Dec 2002
              • 22034
              • Katy, TX, USA.
              • BT3000 vintage 1999
              #4
              guess that means no new shop... or does it?maybe you can trade that for staying.
              Loring in Katy, TX USA
              If your only tool is a hammer, you tend to treat all problems as if they were nails.
              BT3 FAQ - https://www.sawdustzone.org/forum/di...sked-questions

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                • Uncle Cracker
                  The Full Monte
                  • May 2007
                  • 7091
                  • Sunshine State
                  • BT3000
                  #5
                  Things usually have a way of working out for the better. Sometimes the best change is no change at all.

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                    • Ed62
                      The Full Monte
                      • Oct 2006
                      • 6021
                      • NW Indiana
                      • BT3K
                      #6
                      You know the women are always right. And I thought we might be seeing a new username for you (Civildoc?). Hope everything works out well for you.

                      Ed
                      Do you know about kickback? Ray has a good writeup here... https://www.sawdustzone.org/articles...mare-explained

                      For a kickback demonstration video http://www.metacafe.com/watch/910584...demonstration/

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                        • crokett
                          The Full Monte
                          • Jan 2003
                          • 10627
                          • Mebane, NC, USA.
                          • Ryobi BT3000
                          #7
                          Paul,

                          You realize of course that she never wanted to move in the first place. It just took her this long to come up with a justification as to why.
                          David

                          The chief cause of failure in this life is giving up what you want most for what you want at the moment.

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                            • cabinetman
                              Gone but not Forgotten RIP
                              • Jun 2006
                              • 15216
                              • So. Florida
                              • Delta
                              #8
                              With all the posts about relocating and moving, you have to move. We're all prepared for it...don't let us down.

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                                • gwyneth
                                  Veteran Member
                                  • Nov 2006
                                  • 1134
                                  • Bayfield Co., WI
                                  #9
                                  Originally posted by cabinetman
                                  With all the posts about relocating and moving, you have to move. We're all prepared for it...don't let us down.
                                  Yes, we were all looking forward to it.

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                                    • MilDoc
                                      #10
                                      Sorry guys, LOML says "No". And I learned those two words that save a man's marriage a long time ago .....

                                      "Yes, Dear"

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