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  • bruce hylton
    Established Member
    • Dec 2008
    • 211
    • winlock, wa
    • Dewalt today

    #1

    What happens next?

    3:38 a.m. I can't stay in bed any longer.
    3:58 a.m. done arisen, washed my face and started to think about why.
    4:00 a.m. sucking down my first 800 mg ibuprofen for the day, getting ice pack from freezer to start icing my back.
    5:25 a.m. been at the computer since 4:00 checking forums etc.
    5:30 a.m. wake wife and go outside to start vehicle.
    5:40 a.m. leave to take wife to restaurant to start our day.
    6:00 a.m. finished beer order, getting first cup of coffee and saying hello to first coffee customer of the day just as cook is arriving.
    7:00 a.m. ordering breakfast from just arriving waitress.
    7:45 a.m. leaving table to check what may be needed in restaurant or bar before I leave for the day. Easy day today, one meat order placed at 7:10 and no grocery list to go for.
    8:00 a.m. home to a yard full of hungry barn cats.
    8:15 a.m. look over yard for outside crew and determine todays course.
    8:45 back on forums, take second dose of Ibuprofen, check with day crew to see what their schedule is and what I can expect from them.
    9:19 a.m. back checking another forum, looking for price info on scrap products which I do for a supplemental type income.
    Till 3:00 p.m. I am running around like I don't know what I am doing, checking with help, the accountant, the store, mowing grass, cleaning and shipping when I have a sale or delivering and/or preparing scrap for sale. Chasing down more material or picking up at my regular customers and always looking for that next item to make a buck on.
    Almost like clockwork I am able and willing to lay down for a nap. Right after I spend a few moments on an inversion table or at the bone cruncher. Usually by 5:00 p.m. I am on my way to find out what problens have arisen at the restaurant or the bar, And now it is beer time.
    And believe me I am hoping there is nothing out of place so that I can relax in peace. The restaurant part of the business closes by 9:00 p.m. and we are usually home between 10 and 10:30 p.m., cussing and discussing our day, good or bad, and deciding what we need to do tomorrow. I can go to sleep right after I get a shower and spend as little as 10 minutes on that inversion table.
    Between 11:00 p.m. and 4 a.m. the next morning I will wake for one reason or another at least 3 times before I can no longer stand the bed. My mind works great if I am alone, but the moment anyone gets near me I forget all about what I am planning and why. I just want to lay down and go to sleep.
    My wife and I have been going like this seven days a week, for more than four years and we see no let up unless one of us is hurt or sick. Most of the time things feel good business wise, but lately the economy has tanked even for the bar business.
    Thanks for letting me unload. It really isn't as hard or uncomfortable as I would like to think. I just have a backache, no insurance because i can't afford it, and a few other minor issues like pride that won't allow me to use the system.
    And worse than anything else, I don't have time to set up the wood working shop that I always wanted after I retired, nor the ambition to work at till we sell the business.
  • luteman
    Established Member
    • Dec 2007
    • 145
    • Northern Michigan
    • BT3100-1

    #2
    Hang in there Bruce.....things always get worse before they get really crappy!!!!

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    • jackellis
      Veteran Member
      • Nov 2003
      • 2638
      • Tahoe City, CA, USA.
      • BT3100

      #3
      Bruce,

      Back pain is pretty awful and it probably doesn't help your overall morale or your state of mind. (IOW, it sucks big).

      I suffered a mild back fracture in an auto accident at 18. I'm now 55 and my back is actually getting better rather than worse. Some of the improvement might be luck, but I think there are a couple of other reasons. We sleep on a firm mattress. I try to get regular exercise (not so much this year), mostly bicycling. A few years back I did more exercises to strengthen my back and my abdomen. Used to be I could not be on my feet for more than an hour at a time without really suffering. This past weekend I spent most of each day standing up with no problems.

      It sounds like you're a really busy guy but taking a few minutes out for a little exercise each day (under a doctor's direction) might pay really big dividends and change your whole outlook. Just a thought.

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      • Uncle Cracker
        The Full Monte
        • May 2007
        • 7091
        • Sunshine State
        • BT3000

        #4
        I really don't approach my day anything like you do, Bruce... except the part about ordering beer at 6:00am, that is...

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        • L. D. Jeffries
          Senior Member
          • Dec 2005
          • 747
          • Russell, NY, USA.
          • Ryobi BT3000

          #5
          Hey, why wait till 6:00pm. My zero point is 3:00pm, after all its 6:00pm somewhere in the world!
          RuffSawn
          Nothin' smells better than fresh sawdust!

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          • cabinetman
            Gone but not Forgotten RIP
            • Jun 2006
            • 15216
            • So. Florida
            • Delta

            #6
            You're actually fortunate to have a full schedule. Long lapses (like nothing to do) could lead to depression which could be a lot worse than back pain (I have both).
            .

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            • pelligrini
              Veteran Member
              • Apr 2007
              • 4217
              • Fort Worth, TX
              • Craftsman 21829

              #7
              Originally posted by bruce hylton
              I just have a backache, no insurance because i can't afford it, and a few other minor issues like pride that won't allow me to use the system.
              I don't have any insurance either; still working contract (self employed), overextended on everything else. My wife needed some doctor time and she found a non-profit doctors group that had some really reasonable rates done on a sliding scale. It was a lot better than trying to go through our public health system.
              Erik

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              • bruce hylton
                Established Member
                • Dec 2008
                • 211
                • winlock, wa
                • Dewalt today

                #8
                If we want a public health system for everyone, we need to pass laws that say that congress must use the same system as everyone else. We would then have the best in the world.

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                • just started
                  Senior Member
                  • Mar 2008
                  • 642
                  • suburban Philly

                  #9
                  The crooks will write themselves a way around it just like they did with the 'do-not-call' lists.

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                  • Rand
                    Established Member
                    • May 2005
                    • 492
                    • Vancouver, WA, USA.

                    #10
                    I've had much better results with Aleve (Naproxen Sodium) than Ibuprofen. Try taking 2 of them twice a day, it may make your back feel better.
                    Rand
                    "If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like your thumb."

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                    • gsmittle
                      Veteran Member
                      • Aug 2004
                      • 2790
                      • St. Louis, MO, USA.
                      • BT 3100

                      #11
                      Bruce, the system is there for a reason-use it! You are certainly not abusing the system, nor are you lazy—the system is a safety net.

                      g.
                      Smit

                      "Be excellent to each other."
                      Bill & Ted

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