I dont want to offend but you are dillusional if you think that you are in control of your situation in life and that no outside person or influence could wrest said control away from you. That's just a generalization for life itself but it certainly holds true for labor/employment security.
I have decent job security but I also have skills that would enable me to work in a couple different fields should my plant close. Software programming, server administration, home remodeling ect. Despite that I am not naive enough to think that I'm 100% in control of my life situation.
I have decent job security but I also have skills that would enable me to work in a couple different fields should my plant close. Software programming, server administration, home remodeling ect. Despite that I am not naive enough to think that I'm 100% in control of my life situation.
I watch people who go to work every day doing things they hate. When you ask them why, they say, "It's a steady pay check and has good benefits. Besides, I can't afford the health care if I'm not employed." The fact of the matter is, they are less in control of their lives than they think. They think the 'steady paycheck' and 'benefits' equate to security. The fact is, they could lose their job, or the company could go out of business any day of the week. Look at all of the people who counted on pensions for "security" instead of taking control and are now left with nothing. They will be forced to work until their 80 or worse, dead- because they fell for the illusion of security. How secure were they really? A lot of them probably hated every second of their working life, but they did it because they were "secure".
The bottom line is that people are handed a set of values and never come up with what they really value the most themselves. I can lose my life or be paralyzed in a car accident, lose my job, lose anything. I am not in control of the situation. But I am in control of ME. If any of that were to happen, I will be either dead or alive. If I am alive then I am going to d what I can to actually live and live on my terms.
Maybe I'm dillusional. If so, at least it's my decision to be that way and not something I decided without realizing someone else was deciding for me. I used to think jobs = security. I got out of college and went right for a "job" even though I had already started my own business. I felt that is what was expected of me- from my familiy and society. I went to college because my parents always expected I would. I am so glad that they had those expectations for me- because they were beneficial. However, some of their values are not mine anymore. So, I know where you're coming from. I've been on both sides of the fence and made my decision of which works better for me. If you decided for YOURSELF which side you like best- that's good for you. But the question is- are you really the one who decided, or was it all an illusion and you didn't realize you were making a choice?


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